Why
meditate? :
We meditate to learn and understand things on a deeper level than
we can by mere “thought”. Have you every tried for
days to figure out the answer to a problem with your mind in a
whirl? That is because our conscious minds are not nearly as efficient
at solving some problems as our subconscious mind is. Meditation
is the process of clearing away conscious thought so that the
subconscious can work on our problems.
This “clearing the conscious mind” is often misinterpreted
as “clearing the mind” and is the biggest stumbling
block to those trying to learn to meditate. It is not possible
to entirely clear your mind. If we were able to do that we would
probably be brain dead! Instead, we merely clear the conscious
thoughts away by an easy process of relaxation which allows the
subconscious to take over. By focusing on a specific object or
question our every day thoughts fade away and the subconscious
begins working on the problem you have presented to it.
Meditation can help in solving problems as in meditation the arguments
and thought process of active mind becomes slow.
Stress
and Thoughts :
Stress comes from thoughts. The human mind processes thousands
of thoughts every day, some useful, most useless. To achieve true
peace and clarity requires mastery over the mind, a capacity to
sit back and watch what is happening in the mind, in order to
select the useful thoughts and to be amused by the useless.
So
many of our life habits such as television and glossy magazines
simply add to the useless thoughts and make clarity more difficult
to achieve.
Part
of Mastery over the Mind is to watch your thoughts whilst you
are alone, for example, while you are driving. Watch what your
mind does. Be a silent witness to your own mind.
Stop Your Mind :
Meditation
is really about stopping your mind. There is a range of different
methods from Transcendental Meditation to Raja Yoga. However,
in essence, they are all geared to achieve one common goal –
a peaceful mind.
A
simple Meditation is to sit quietly, upright in a comfortable
posture. Close your eyes breathe deeply for a few minutes and
make a commitment to clearing your mind. If there are any thoughts
running around inside your head, simply look at each one, acknowledge
it and let it pass by.
When
you are ready, take at least 20 and/or up to 200 deep slow breathes,
breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth. As you
do, count backwards toward zero, one count for each breath. Whilst
doing that, visualize the number you are counting out in front
of you in the darkness. Focus on that number. If any thoughts
come into your mind, push them away. If your mind wanders off,
pull it back.
Remember,
the Journey is the destination. By this, I mean that it is the
act of recognizing your wandering mind and errant thoughts that
create a “successful” meditation. It means you are
becoming skilled in the art of watching your mind. Please do not
sit there expecting to find Nirvana. You may well do so one day,
but you may not. Meditate with no expectation.
Once
you are meditating regularly, your Conscious Mind will become
more calm. At this time, you will tune into the Subconscious Mind
and the Universal Consciousness more readily and more frequently.
You will notice that you are becoming more aware and you will
begin to see signs in your life. It is an amazing experience.
For example, a minor problem may be sitting somewhere back in
your mind when you get into your car one day. When you turn on
the engine a song will be playing and the first words in the song
that you hear will be the answer to the problem. Watch it happen
don’t expect it, just be mindful.
The
High Performance Mind :
Stress and pressure are not the problem for sports people. Stress
has always been around and always will be and pressure it creates
diamonds. The key is your ability to deal with both as they happen,
in a way that it does not impair your performance, but improves
it. Success is achieved or lost through the workings of the Mind.
Using
the Performance Mind technique, or meditation, simply triggers
the Relaxation Response in the body i.e. your body’s natural
in-built mechanism for relaxation and rejuvenation, as what happens
when you rest or sleep.
Mindfulness
:
What is Intellect? The ability to watch your thoughts come and
go. Exercise your mind control to build your intellect. That way,
you will be able to more clearly watch your thoughts and you will
be able to distinguish the good and useful from the bad and wasteful.
Meditation
or quiet contemplation is great tools for this.
Try
speaking less and listening more. When you get the urge to speak,
don’t. Wait, be patient – observe. There is plenty
of time.
The Benefits of Meditation :
Regular
Meditation practice produces number of startling results. Consider
the following :
Trust
and Intent :
Trust
:
First, to really embrace the concept of a peaceful mind, you must
train yourself to Trust the flow of life. Everything will be ok.
Stop worrying about the future. You see, the future is not here
yet. In fact, your vision of the future may never arrive. It is
no good to you until it arrives. So, forget about it. Absolute
effectiveness and happiness arise out of how well you do “NOW”.
This
does not mean you cannot make plans. Go for it, make your plans.
When you are done, forget about what the plan requires of tomorrow.
Focus on what must be done today.
Often,
a looming problem sits in your mind, causing you stress. One of
the great rules of synchronicity is this. For every problem, there
is a solution. And, the solution appears at the same time the
problem arrives. Most of the time, however, we do not see the
solution because we are so clouded by stress and anxiety around
the problem.
Trust
that the solution will be there for you and you will see it. It
is never blunt, always subtle. To quote an old Buddhist saying,
“God created the perfect food for birds, but he stopped
short of throwing it into their nests”.
Intent
:
This is a word of great power. This is what you put out to the
Universe. What you put out, you will attract. If you put out events
that you fear, you will draw them to you. If you put out that
you are a calm, peaceful person, you will draw that to you. Try
it and see.
When
you start the day with a meditation, you will ground yourself
and then be able to lock in your intent for the day. This is the
deeper aspect of what some call a positive mental attitude.
Other Meditative Activities :
There are a range of activities you can “take up”
to supplement your meditation. These are effective as they provide
you with a focus for intense concentration, which tends to stop
the mind wandering all over the place. These activities include
: